Jeff, I do have to say, if wishful thinking were gold coin, you'd be the richest man in the realm.
it's the way I was raised and it has helped me tremndously in my own life and how I have conducted it. For that, I am grateful to wonderful parents (my WW II Combat Vet father of the PTO who has passed now, and may he continue to RIP, and my mother who we care for in a facility near our home now), and to a wonderful wife, and to God in Heaven and my Savior, Jesus Christ.