So, back off and let me do what God has called me to do. I answer to him, not you.
That you do. It is your duty and obligation to do so, and indeed should be your delight to do so. And yes, I believe you 100% about your praying for your ex brothers and sisters to see the light. In fact, I honor you for it. You have a duty before God and you do it.
I too speak as the Lord moves - and that set of verses is constantly in my thoughts. Because I am a person who cannot know the mind of another. I judge based on my own thought and not God’s will. He doesn’t often talk back to me directly, but when he does, I do what he says.
Your brethren challenged you to examine your beliefs and you came to Truth. That is both a pleasure and a joy to me, even though you are still a heretic in my book unless you are Catholic - and yes, that was a mild joke in bad taste.
The verse, however, says nothing of judging hypocritically. It simply states, whatever criteria you judge by you will be judged by.
It is one of the most clear and unambiguous verses in the bible.
You will be judged as you judge.
My doctrine is biblical. No issues there.