Only losers do the mail order bride thing. Wake up. The “brides” want one thing, citizenship papers, then they will gone like the wind to seek their fortunes elsewhere. Don’t be fooled.
Pretty much....No American woman would put up with their crap. And there are ton's of great American women out there as well as men.
There was a show on TV last year on these mail order brides. The guys just looked strange and gave me, a guy a very uneasy feeling. 65 year old ugly, fat men trying to woo 22 year old fairly attractive women. One woman just had a look of disgust on her face when this guy tied to talk to her..even she could not stomach it.
So if men marry a woman from another place, and refuse the local women, they are losers? You reveal much about yourself with that statement. Ask any man, anywhere, and you’ll repeatedly hear how American women are the worst wives on the planet.
Then ask women everywhere else, who live with true misogynists, who the best husbands on earth are,,
And if foreigners only marry American men for papers,, where are all the foreign men clamoring to marry American woman for papers?
And I love that last one,, she is only after what she wants, then will leave him. You think the way to avoid that syndrome is to marry an American woman! Yeahhhhh,, they’ll never marry a guy for what he can do for them, then walk away a few years later with half and more. You need to wake up, to the reality that most men here face. Lol,,,
I guess if we are losers anyway, why would we care what you think? Why would you care WHO we losers find some happiness with? Btw,, I seem to notice,, the fastest way to be called a loser, is to laugh and turn your back on American women. They hate rejection,,,
Plus, you can meet plenty of foreign women here in the US and don't need to marry them to get together. Learn just enough of the language to break the ice and go to foreign bars. Most of them will actually speak decent English anyway. They will treat you extremely well and beg to marry in a few months but don't give in.
A good rule today for any man with property and/or a high income is don't even permanently live together unless she is pregnant. She can stay as long as she wants but no moving her stuff in or getting her mail delivered. And don't get married until the kids are a few years old.
Not all women are evil but marriage today gives them too much power. Power can corrupt even the purest of people. There was a time when men depended on women for affection and women depended on men to provide for the kids. Now a court can order a man to provide for a woman and kids. Marriage is hard work for both but it makes some women become lazy, controlling and inattentive to a man's needs because a court will still force him to provide no-matter how much work she puts in.
I can't even count how many friends I have who are stuck in controlling, loveless marriages. “You will do as I say or I'll sick the lawyer dogs on you tomorrow”. About half are with foreign women who they married after a few months.
There is a FReeper who married a beautiful, young Filipina who did that very thing. Used him to get citizenship papers and left him for a young man. Broke his heart. But oh no, American women are stinkers. And here many of us sit, with traditional values and passed by because other women are superficial.