Sorry, but I’ve seen it too many times. It isn’t the man’s looks. As for manliness, that sees to now mean being a jerk. To me, manliness is about being responsible and hard working.
Women are choosing human trash with an excess of testosterone and the manners of a dog.
I think it may be hard wired.
Feminists love to rant about "the Patriarchy", but if you look at human history, for most civilizations up until the last few decades, Patriarchy (rule by fathers) seems to have been what held things together. Up until the last few decades, fathers had a lot to say about who was permitted to see their daughters, and had as one of their important roles to ensure that their daughters married responsible men and minimized exposure to "human trash".