Understood. I just tired of the “blame the men” that goes for debate on these topics in society. Men have plenty to answer for, surely, but we didn’t make this mess all by ourselves, and we sure can’t dig our way out of it alone either :)
I am very grateful that we have so much peace, harmony and mutual respect at home, my husband and I --- not because of my (scant) virtue, but very much because of his.