[A_perfect_lady]

I’m appalled. Anytime a partner of mine was mad, I was practically hiding under the bed. I hate when men get angry. It scares me half to death.

[Steve Newton]

Hummm

I have the same feeling when a woman gets mad. Or is sad, crying, upset -—whatever.

I guess I am old fashion.

[Talisker]

I’m appalled. Anytime a partner of mine was mad, I was practically hiding under the bed. I hate when men get angry. It scares me half to death.

It's not your "partners" fault - it's yours. All human beings get angry sometimes. You are describing a neurotic hypersensitivity and fear reaction that is inappropriate to a fairly normal occurance..

It's also something that can be used to manipulate the hell out of your "partner."

Get help.

[driftless2]

I had an ex-girlfriend who was always insisting I express my feelings. One time after she asked me to express my feelings, I told her I was feeling pretty hungry at the moment, and could she cook me something. We broke up shortly after that. Fate.

[trailhkr1]

Anytime a partner of mine was mad, I was practically hiding under the bed. I hate when men get angry. It scares me half to death.

Wow, who are you dating?