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Men do go around having sex as much if not more than women but we have no control in the outcome of these encounters. We can't decide that we don't want to be responsible like women can. Men are forced to pay child support for their unwanted pregnancies or are forced to stand by while their child is murdered against their will. MEN HAVE NO CHOICE! Women can have sex all they want and when they get pregnant they look to zip up the fathers income for 18 yrs possibly more for juniors college also. When a man get a woman pregnant he has everything to lose... a woman gets pregnant and she can win the lottery if he's rich (athletes,doctors,etc). How many women do you know that pay thousands a month in support and the kids live so far away they can't see them and the kids call stepmother Mommy. Now ask yourself...How many men do you know in that situation? It's a no-brainer people!!! Give men the same right to abort fatherhood as women have to abort motherhood. Men have no choice!!!We are at the mercy of any floozy who wants to rape your income for their dream of being babies momma! Lets put an end to this kind of discrimination against men!

I agree with everything you say. In a perfect world, casual sex wouldn't exist, and these problems would go away. But taking the circumstances we have, men absolutely get screwed. It is common practice around military bases for girls to get these young guys, lie and tell them they are on the pill, then get pregnant. Then the kid has to either pay up or she goes to his command. You wouldn't believe how common this practice is. Should they not be sleeping around? You bet. But our society has told them its ok.

I had a kid come in the store to buy some condoms, and he was complaining about how expensive they were. I told him, "Honey, the alternative is much, much worse."

We can't decide that we don't want to be responsible like women can.

The "choice" for all is before sex, whether to have it or not, period.

I told my sons that if you decide to have sex before marriage just remember there is a big chance that if the girl gets pregnant and has the baby, you will be forever intertwined with that woman, for the rest of your life you will have to talk to, see and deal with the mother of your child.

Give men the same right to abort fatherhood as women have to abort motherhood.

Wrong. What needs to be done is to give fathers a veto over the abortion death of their child.

And give fathers the right to raise - not visit - their own children regardless of marital status.

Men do go around having sex as much if not more than women but we have no control in the outcome of these encounters.

What planet are you from??? Have you never heard of a condom???? Or just saying no because you do not want to take the risk of paying child support for the next 18 years?
People in here preach individual responsibility but I guess it does not apply to men when their pants are down.