I also grew up poor but was taught to be independent. I have not bought a new pair of shoes in 7 years. I rotate between the three pair I have and have never paid more than $70 for a good pair of shoes for work. My 7 year old athletic shoes were $40 on sale.
I drive a 1999 Ford mostly to work and back and it has 62500 actual miles on it and I bought that used when it 2as 6 mos. old. If you use good sense and take care of your stuff it will last and you might have some money left to buy other things that make your life better.
$200 for a pair of Nike shoes? What a bunch of crap.
$200 for shoes ?