They probably have not sat with a family member, dying of pancreatic cancer...a big grown man down to 91 pounds and pissing black tar.
Begging, please God let me die.
Yep, most of those folks haven't been there yet. Most haven't found it necessary to kill a father or mother to bring them final peace.
They'll judge instead.
There's more than one son that would have killed anyone who tried to keep him from killing his father.