You’re right in that I didn’t get my def from Wikipedia. If that’s your source for philosophy, I don’t wonder at your comments. Evidence? You mean a remark from your cousin-pastor? Evidence of what—a sense of humor?
You go right on keepin’ count, tho.
If you want to deny the fact that folks who are the most upset and judgmental about the infidelity of others are those who are themselves currently in unhappy relationships, go ahead. I don’t have time or inclination to go finding the studies that prove it, so just ask any counselor or psych or pastor you run into — and get back to me when any of them disagree with my premise.
And yes, I am generalizing - which is valid - as long as you admit that you are generalizing. So yes, I think this is at the root of a lot of the virulent anti Newt folks.