You are too set on your own idea of what war will be in the future.
China has a long term plan to deal with us. Our Soldiers will be hand to hand with theirs at some point. This will occur AFTER the breakfast bombing. They will bomb the sh*t out of us as well, so our survivors will be fighting their survivors.
The Chinese military will be brutally killing our female Soldiers and our male Soldiers will be trying to save some of the females, thus being killed in the process. Our fighting force will be much depleted, thanks to the social experiment being forced on the Military by office dwelling, lala land inhabiting know-nothings that have learned all they needed to know about combat, women, and grunts in their Ivy league classrooms and high paying government job.
It is sad and every man or woman who has served i n a combat or forward deployed situation knows the reality of what is happening.
How is it advantageous for China to "deal with us"?