I told him I'm feeling the same pain, but I know we are doing the right thing. I love her so much and still see her as the one with the band-aids who kissed the boo-boos away for all of us brats.
We just have to deal with change by relying on the inner strength that God kindly bestows. All will be well.
Aw, it will be difficult and painful for you and your siblings, just like RedMDer imparted to you yesterday about his experience. You have my prayers. I can’t relate because I wasn’t blessed to have mine live into their eighties to have to worry about putting either in care facilites. You please get plenty of rest and keep talking to God and your siblings. You’ll keep one another strong and in good health and cheer. (((((deoetdoctrinae)))))
I’m sure that your Mom made some hard decisions as a Mom. Now it’s you and your siblings turn to use all the love that you learned from her. It sounds like your dear Mother loved all of you very much. Just do what she would do.