I think that of all the offers of advice you’ve been given in this thread, you will do well to ignore what emmanates from the self-righteous who want to lay guilt-trips on you (if you _allow_ them to). :)
72 posted on 02/05/2012 10:15:28 PM PST by Matchett-PI
("One party will generally represent the envied, the other the envious. Guess which ones." ~GagdadBob)