OK, let me see if I have this right. In your post #59 back to me, you claim that credit cards work for you as a tool and admit that it takes discipline to ensure that it does not turn into unmanageable debt. (I’ll continue to disagree with you on your stance that it is not debt if you pay it off every month.)
Then in your #60 post to Brewer you respond to his statement that he will never get into any more debt again, you reply with, “it isn’t realistic for most people.”
This is where we will have our rub. I agree that there is a very small percentage of CC users that can do so without spending more than necessary and that pay them off every month, in addition these rare birds have enough in the bank to cover their CC statement for a month or more. I also agree that you are likely one of these very few people.
That said, I can also state without a doubt that “most people” will think that they are responsible enough to use credit cards and other debt instruments, however “most people” are not. Instead it is normal for “most people” to be one small event away from crashing and burning. Heck, statistically with my having 6 months of bills in a savings account, that alone puts me in the top 10 percentile of the US population.
So, you reflect that the “proper” use of debt is just a tool, while I say that the vast majority of debt users are “tools.” Why? Well, the reality is that debt is nothing more than risk. The “tools” plan for only the positive aspects of debt and none of the potential negative consequences. Then life hits and most of the “tools” end up with the negative consequences.
You make the case that a person can become wealthy using debt tools, but that is “IF” x, y, or z.
I make the case that a person can become wealthy using cash. Period. Garunteed.
You are fine with the risk that an “IF” can bring, I prefer to not even allow for that event to be a destroyer of my wealth.
People have been using debt for time immemorial; some wisely, some not so much. But never has there been a better definition of debt than from the bible (as you well know) Proverbs 22:7 “...the borrower is slave to the lender.”
I’m not going to argue my point to justlurking because it’s pointless. I’m not trying to convince him/her to my way of thinking since it takes one of those “I’ve had it!” moments and it appears that’s not been experienced. He/she may go through their entire life using debt without negative consequence, and pass that lifestyle along to their children who may not wield the tool as well as they do. Debt will always bite. It’s just a matter of when and how.
If you get an bill that is payable in 30 days, is that debt? I treat credit cards like bills that are due once a month. They just consolidate other bills. Actually, if you get a plain green American Express card, it is due in full every 30 days -- they aren't revolving credits cards. You have to pay a fee for that "privilege", though... probably because they'll never collect interest from you unless your bill is past due.
Then in your #60 post to Brewer you respond to his statement that he will never get into any more debt again, you reply with, “it isn’t realistic for most people.”
Brewer is justifiably excited that he is about to pay off his mortgage. Once he has done so, it's possible to live debt-free. But, is it realistic to expect "most people" to buy a house/condo/whatever without a mortgage? Or would you prefer to pay rent while you save up the complete purchase price for a habitation? BTW, if you are paying rent, it's likely you are paying the interest on your landlord's mortgage -- he/she is just the middleman.
That's what I meant about not being realistic, but I suspect that you already knew that. Once you have bought a house and paid off the mortgage, you can live debt-free, as long as you don't travel and stay in a decent hotel or rent a car.
I make the case that a person can become wealthy using cash. Period. Garunteed.
Sorry, but a large number of people (9 million households in 2009, according to the FDIC) are already on a cash-only basis, because they don't even have a checking account. And they will stay that way, as long as they live paycheck to paycheck, spending everything that they earn.
Using only cash doesn't make you wealthy. It's a false correlation.
The only thing that makes someone wealthy (if they aren't already) is to spend less than they earn. Whether you do that with debt or without debt is immaterial. If sticking with cash induces you to spend less than you earn, then it's great that you have found something that works for you. But, it's not a panacea for all financial problems.