My point is that the baby was dead.
Wow...incredible..just incredible..to think of all the time I have wasted grieving over dead loved ones..thanks for enlightening me!
Wow, you're cold.
The real point is the baby was theirs and their grief was theirs; therefore, it's none of anyone's business how they dealt with their grief, or helped their family deal with the grief.
Yes the baby is dead, but people get attached to them, and love them before they are born, alot of times they have names by then. It’s so much more then just a dead baby.