When a women, or guy makes a claim, they don’t give a dam about others similarly situated. They are focused on their own situation. Don’t get me wrong, I’m on your side, but this is one of those topics that gets me riled. The fact that the laws so heavily favor the harassee irritates the hell outta me. False claims should be jail sentences, just as proven claims.
I often find that women who make false charges are just not very bright; dangerous, but not very bright. And I agree: jail terms for all of them!
I had a great female boss years ago. Well one of the other bosses at her level, use to come around to the workers ask how you doing, then rub your shoulders. He did this to me. He was married, older man, but very nice. He was the big teddy bear type allways laughing smiling, etc.
So one day I smoked with the female boss on break and just happened to mention how Don likes to give the ladies a shoulder rub. Next thing I know, he stopped doing it...to everyone one of us.
I didn’t threaten him, go to HR, file a lawsuit, etc.