How does one get that job, and what would be the pay
How much do you have to pay to get that job..and to whom?
Both are the same questions, with the same answers. Sell your soul, risk nasty germs that can kill you or stay for life; allow yourself to become calloused such that women are only an object, not a person. Really kind of easy, but not really good.
Oh, and you have to do gay porno for years in order to earn the opportunity to be with the ladies.