Posted on 12/22/2011 4:25:03 PM PST by wagglebee
“I think most of the things women do in bed are because men want it, not because women do.”
I would disagree. Women however typically abhor ‘casual’ sex, and men will typically be drawn to and prefer precisely such a lack of commitment. This article indicates that the porn tends to make young and impressionable females similarly callous. Predatory homosexuals also use such an approach on the young and vulnerable.
The problems here are consent, as in age of, and they also have to accept the consequences of their actions.
That sounds like an Alfred Kinsey style sampling.
More naked women and naked women parts. Men like naked women and naked women parts, if you hadn't noticed.
“The couples that come to her that have been involved in swinging were almost universally initiated by the man. However, for the confusing part, once into the lifestyle, the men were also the first to want to give it up. The women were more apt to report that they missed it.”
My first marriage ended due to this activity. I wanted to give it up and settle down and just be a normal family, find a church and seek forgiveness.
She didn’t. It was not I that initiated us into the ‘lifestyle’ but I did fully participate and enjoyed almost all of it.
Then I grew up. I realized after 12 years and NO std’s that I was one of the lucky ones. I wanted to stay lucky.
I’ve been walking with Christ for 6 years now and do not look back.
Well, in his defense, I have a teenage daughter living at home going to college. As near as I can tell, she never shuts up. If she has female friends over, it sounds like crickets chirping at any distance beyond her door. I don’t even think they’re communicating, but just making noise together.
“...girls from underprivileged areas of the city who had visited a neighborhood clinic for sexual health issues...”
Perhaps some Kinsey style data loading. One hopes so, anyway.
Just confirming what I already know. It’s confused my shrink friend for years, and I don’t begin to understand it. You’re not alone though. It seems women are much more comfortable with that lifestyle once they’re into it than men are.
Go to any mall in America and you will see kids who are clearly from privileged families behaving like they belong in the inner city.
“It seems women are much more comfortable with that lifestyle once they’re into it than men are.”
You would have to attend a party to understand why. I could tell you but I’d be banned and deservedly so.
So freepmail me. I personally find this fascinating because it flies in the face of everything I’ve observed about women in every other setting. I simply don’t get it. Women aren’t supposed to prefer multiple partners.
Imprinting.
I’d venture that people who marry their first sexual partners are imprinted on them and more apt to have long happy marriages.
I’d further venture that having multiple partners blurs the imprinting and starts an imprint on variety, rendering a single partner solution incomplete and unsatisfying.
Very true. A principle part of rap was degrading women to the status of sexual beasts too. Much like a certain religion that prowls around the edges of our culture today.
Translation: PERFECT DATE. One thing left to do, especially if all you had was a '62 Corvair and $5.
But at the same time? All you have to do is watch a man handle a sandwich and a remote at the same time to wonder if this isn't a fantasy best left to pros.
they were the ideal candidates for cults since they were taught to obey authority.
I suspect the elders would regard that as an unintended consequence...
And do we fund this crap (Sex Studies) with taxpayer dollars?
“I personally find this fascinating because it flies in the face of everything I’ve observed about women in every other setting. I simply don’t get it. Women aren’t supposed to prefer multiple partners.”
Do not confuse accepted social assertions with discreet truth. I am not going to get into the conversation further, but will say that my observations would support what Grunthor has said.
Also, bear in mind that among heterosexuals, all those no account dog men are somewhere, somehow finding like minded women. There is no sex fairy doing this via magic. If fewer women are doing it, -those- women are very busy indeed.
Yes on all points.
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