From my reading of the Bible, it is clear to me that God is loving and despairs of even a single person going to their death with their sins unatoned for.
As far as being 'more forgiving' than God is, it isn't up to me to 'forgive' the late Mr. Hitchens. His sins, like all of ours, are committed ultimately against God.
When any of us act like God either doesn't matter or doesn't exist in our lives, he's more than ready to let us go on in that same mind-set for eternity.
I wouldn't wish that on anyone - no matter how much we think that, based on how they've lived their life, deserved it.
If that's what you're saying, then I commend you. I wouldn't send him there either.