How many of the first group are recruiting and grooming the ones in the second group?
No doubt, some. I suspect more in the third group are doing the recruiting, but the key thing is that in communities that are more moral (the Midwest, the suburbs, the countryside), societal institutions are more likely to take someone with a troubled childhood and push them to normalcy.
However, if you come to San Francisco with a messed-up background, prepare to get messed up much more.
My compassion for those that may have homosexual instincts should in no way be taken as a vote of support for the homosexual agenda. I see how the agenda is highly destructive, and how the "lifestyle' leads to incredible misery and outright disease.
But if you have gay instincts, are fighting them, and are fighting bad agendas (gay or otherwise), you're alright with me.