As I said on an earlier post, I can sympathize. I once helped out a female co-worker. She turned out to be a mentally unstable stalker. I guess this means I can never run for political office, since my DemocRAT opponent can find her, give her some cash and make her say we had "an affair".
I saw your earlier post. It was an excellent (although sad) explanation of how these things can happen, and it does appear to be happening more and more these days. Just mho.