I’ve answered this before, but this is not uncommon! I know it isn’t true when you are watching every penny, but when my husband and I lived comfortably both of us helped out friends and acquaintances without talking about it. I can only imagine when you are a millionaire.
I don’t know why, other than we both believe you don’t really talk about your good deeds. “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing” Matt. 6:3.
It is incredibly presumptuous for people to assume they know any understanding of then pass judgment on agreement Mr. and Mrs. Cain have regarding their money management and his philanthropy. If she trusts him in these activities, who are we to judge?