[HiTech RedNeck]

I’m not being catty. I’m inclined to be lenient toward her, although it does create problems for outward witness when a person goes through multiple marriages for reasons other than being widowed. But personally as HTRN I do not stop at seeing a multiple marriage situation. I have known a number of conscientious, devoted Christians who got walked out on by unreasonable spouses, some of them purportedly Christian themselves.

[trisham]

I’m very sorry. I didn’t mean to imply that you were being catty. Imho, we agree.

[Smokin' Joe]

...although it does create problems for outward witness when a person goes through multiple marriages for reasons other than being widowed

Consider that she said she knows the philandering type. It takes two to make a marriage, and sometimes the failure of a marriage is more of a reflection on the transgressions of one spouse than the moral character of the other.