Of course it matters what they say. If all she has is casual, Hi, how are you?, Hows the weather and your cat?, Id say she has nothing
At three in the morning?
The women is a STALKER,!!!!! NUFF SAID,!!!!!!
I can send you a text, providing I have your number, at any time of the day or night.
Whether or not you reply at that time is the question, and if so why and what was it about?
Was it about sex? Or was the reply because you suspected the person might need help at that hour...like someone who had threatened suicide, or in jail and need bail, a problem with a stalker, etc.
People who are con artists usually have a story of some kind to go with it.
Until all of the facts are known, condemning Cain is evil.
Who called who at 3am? And what was the conversation?
Some peoples day starts earlier or ends later. By the way, I think the claim was 4 something, not 3am.