[lonestar]

Would you have a friendship wih a woman for 13 years and help her financilly ...without telling your wife?

If you answer "yes"...let me talk to your wife. ;)

[federal__reserve]

I see nothing wrong with having a friend of opposite gender.
(Victorian era is old news)

I see nothing wrong with helping a friend you like with money if you were not using money needed for milk or other necessities.

Heck I spend money all the time without telling my wife and my wife does not care since she knows how careful I am with spending money.