You can’t put a sexually mature man in alone for any lengths of time with girls or young women with this kind of thing happening. It is a basic natural impulse, something our Creator endowed us with to insure we would not be lonely. It is among the top three most basic human impulses, along with the desire to grow, to be more powerful.
A polite society puts in restraints that assure that no man is ever alone with a woman/girl, that there is always another mature adult present.
Likewise we should understand the darker aspects of such sexual and mating impulses, that they can be in one person quite perverted, and apply era and age appropriate safeguards to protect both predator and prey. For no HUMAN predator ever relishes long his hunger if it is profanely or vilely satisfied.
This especially applies in athletics, where skimpy dress and strange and impolite body contortions are common, and where the power role of trusted coach makes the prey particularly vulnerable, like birds walking into the maw of the tiger.
I don’t think it is man’s nature to physically abuse 10 year old girls and to sexually abuse 12 year old girls. It is the nature of sick men. Maybe this guy can go found a religion or something.
Unfortunately for these girls, this man was left alone with girls all the time. He demanded that parents leave the facilities and not watch practices.
“A polite society puts in restraints that assure that no man is ever alone with a woman/girl, that there is always another mature adult present.”
Heck, we have the same policy with the boys. A coach is never alone with a player. Any meeting is conducted in the snack bar area. If a coach is in the locker room and a player walks in, the coach leaves. We don’t accept players as friends on Facebook, and every e-mail goes to the parents only.
Can be expanded on endlessly. Look at the massive increase in psycho serial rapists and killers since the 60’s when dress became provocative and now has no boundaries. As a crime show buff when you look deeper you’ll find we now have multiple active serial rapists and or killers. Once an Anomaly is now the norm in law enforcement.
I grew up in this sport.
I spent countless hours in the gym with adult male coaches.
Not one of them gave a hint of this kind of behavior.
I grew up in this sport.
I spent countless hours in the gym with adult male coaches.
Not one of them gave a hint of this kind of behavior.
That said, I disagree with your view that men are such animals this kind of thing is inevitable. Many, many men manage to be faithful to their wives and never even think about fooling around with underage girls.
Search for "Naughty Teachers" on FR. Clearly, based on these articles, you can’t put a sexually mature man woman in alone for any lengths of time with girls boys or young women men with this kind of thing happening.
Do you not believe me? Just google Alison Peck, Amber Jennings, Autumn Leathers, Beth Ann Chester, Cristie Elliot, Debra Lafave, etc...
Do you still feel your self righteous misandrous superiority?
Your lack of personal integrity is disgusting.
Your efforts to slander the rest of mankind with your own failings is even more disgusting.
The only group who thinks like you are the Muslims, who regard women as property and dress them like sacks.
So either join Islam, or get psychiatric help before you hurt someone. Because either way, you're sick.