Basically, leftists and students think the average person is too stupid to make their own lives. They need guidance from their betters i.e. leftists. Anarchists claim not to want to rule anyone, but by denying the right to personal property, they essentially oppress the average person i.e. the would-be property owner. Totalitarian fascists all of them.
You're thinking of those people all dressed in black with little circle-A badges. Actual anarchy is defined by the individual anarchist, hence the name. People like me are more anarchist than those capital A freaks you're talking about. Most critics of anarchy rely on straw-man mythical Anarchy as a critical target. The capitalized Anarchists you're complaining about are a bunch of Communitarians, aka proto-communists.