Your argument simply fails the reality test. Whether Catholic or Muslim, there’s a wide range of belief regarding what constitutes being a member of that group. You’ve taken a narrow set of characteristics and tried to apply them to an entire group, some members of which disagree with your definition. If I find 100 Catholics or Muslims who vigorously and reasonably claim to be a member of that faith, but who do not share the characteristics you ascribe, then certainly there must be a million more and your definition must be questioned.
The first article was written in 1999. The second in the last few years.
You are incredibly naive or actually muslim.
The only real question is why you would think you can believe what they are telling you. Good luck with that.