Every other man coming to the confessional reporting they had looked at “porn” — I’d think I’d have to ask what they meant. Or maybe I’ve been living a sheltered life and the hardcore stuff really does enjoy that kind of widespread popularity. Soft porn, or things that weren’t even intended as more than “sexy” but could be viewed through lustful eyes, is not hard at all to get.
Yes, we need to be careful how we label. Diluting the meaning and applying it to lesser things, tends to dilute the understanding of the gravity. We see that in charges of racism, homophobia, sexism, bullying, etc. They become meaningless charges.