When we first initiated the process of normalizing homosexuality, we ignored the inevitable consequences.
Now that it's beginning to come to fruition, we refuse to see what is happening and simply choose to call it something else.
This is not unique in history; societies have experienced it again and again and there's a reason humanity always ends up outlawing it.
You missed the PC take on all this?
It’s that these are heterosexual men (look - he’s married!) and not typical gay behavior, which involves only (mostly) monogamous consensual sex between two adults who can now legally marry.
That’s the “party line” on these situations.