I filed a complaint and demanded a different doctor after a new one started questioning the kids if we had guns in the house, how dangerous they were and then started slipping in things about our mental states. I let it go on just to see where she was headed and enjoyed every minute of it. The kids were handling her well enough on their own by giving her weird looks and barely answering. Imagine her pursed lips when the one got fed up and told her dad carried a gun at work. She was gone from the clinic a few months later.
Good for you! This hasn’t happened to us, but I would quickly change doctors or practices.
I used an obstetrics group in one pregnancy where one of the doctors was quite rude about my having (at that time) my 7th child. Although I only saw him a couple of times, and the other doctors and staff were perfectly pleasant, I did not go back to that practice for subsequent pregnancies.