We have spent the last 20 years trying to educate men. We should have been educating women. She should have just slapped his Johnson and got back to work.
If you are told, male or female, that you must "perform" or lose your job, that is a problem.
Anything short of that, shut up. People are free to quit jobs when the people they work with are crappy.
We are a nation of whiners who think we have a right to go through life unoffended. I'm not sure that is even a word, but if it isn't it needs to be. :)
So the boss should just be able to walk up and ask for oral sex? What century are you from?