[ConservativeWarrior]

Also, note that the “Alpha” vs. “Beta” distinction in men is largely internal, a matter of outlook and behavior.

Men don't have to be one or the other. I know of "betas" with the big house, 8/10 wife, and nice kids, who turn into "alphas" at happy hour, and hook up with 10/10 women.

For the most part, the wives either don't care, or don't want to know. They're happy with what the beta side of the guy is providing, and will put up with the alpha behavior so long as it doesn't directly interfere.

[globelamp]

First, if they are married to 8:s, that means that they aren´t *that* beta per definition. Beta and “family man” aren´t synonyms in my lingo, rather:

Alpha: Attractive man to women. (8-10)

Beta: Moderately attractive man. (5-7)

Omega: Actively offputting to women. (1-4)

But sure, that´s the good thing about alcohol (and the surrounding social strictures) - it allows one to maintain multiple personalities.

Especially useful for subdued cultures like the Swedes or the Japanese, even in non-sexual contexts. Work hard and shut up during the day, get wasted and say what you really think about your boss after hours, in a socially accepted fashion. What´s not to like?