[andy58-in-nh]

I think if a man watches two girls kissing, they find it “hot” because they mentally place themselves “with” the girls

That's pretty much correct, I suppose. But reality never lives up to the fantasy because most of those "girls" look like Rosie O'Donnell in a plaid work shirt, hobnail boots, and a flattop haircut.

[momtothree]

Thank you, Andy58-in-nh for educating me. I read an article years ago that males are “visual” lovers and females are “mental” lovers. I don’t think many men would find it appealing if two bulky, masculine women were making out. That type of imagery usually involves two very feminine women.