[Dr. White]

I would draw a line between mistreatment and strict rules.

Strict rules about dress and dating need not constitute mistreatment.

For example, the Duggars, presumably Southern Baptist, have strict rules about dress and dating and the wat they run their family isn't mistreatment.

[tired&retired]

Strict rules about dating includes the parents picking the child’s marriage partner. Yes, It still happens.