Good Lord. You guys all sound like Tim Gunn of Project Runway.
Let's face it...they're trying to squeeze the last of our manhood from us. Brokeback mountain, forced acceptance of gays, the NFL wears pink (albeit for a good cause), and on and on. We need to hold on to some 'man' things, like enjoying the presence of an attractive lady. Hope we're not offending anyone, but I'm proud to be a man and I'm not apologizing for my natural, God-given urges, silly as they may seem at times.
For the record, I have a FANTASTIC lady that I wouldn't trade for any other.