To see if her phone has Mango, look in Settings/About, then look under Software. If she has Mango, it should read: “Software: Windows Phone 7.5.” If not, I think it will say “Software: Windows Phone 7.0.” When Mango first started rolling out (September 27th I think), I didn’t get any notification that an update was available. Then I found out that only about 10% of customers should expect to get Mango in the first round. I was impatient, but I found out how to force a download ahead of my scheduled time by going to www.wpcentral.com and following their instructions, so my Samsung Focus is now running on Mango, yay.
Thanks! Found it and she’s still running 7.0. I guess we’ll wait until the download shows up. Do you notice any real differences?