While I don’t reject your statement, re-read exodus please, it was not just the sexually debauchery that brought about their harsh but just judgement. They were unjust in every aspect of society. If having imoral consentual carnal knowlegde were enough for sodom and gomorah how much more should the punishment be for us.
As I stated, God was very clear in BOTH the Old and New testaments - homosexuality is an abomination.
I defer to Him and His judgement.