“I’d like to know stats on how many whites are in this situations, vs. blacks or other ethnicities.”
I was in family court once watching a black, female judge dispensing “justice.” In my opinion, she was arbitrary and irrational. She didn’t listen or care. She acted the same in cases involving whites and blacks but while I was there gave every woman before her everything they wanted from her. Men, black and white, were scr*wed.
A family law court judge can do things, like imprison you without legal representation, that can’t be done by any other type of judge. Something should be done to rein in their power.
Oh yeah, it’s a picnic for the women. sarc They get to care for the children, 24/7 while the men are out sowing their wild oats, not showing up for visits, trying to control the women by withholding what little child support does get awarded. Look buster, do you not realize that when the dad cuts out the women’s lifestyle goes to the dogs? Men can make a lot more money than women.
Oh, so then the men get the bright idea, “I’ll just take the children from her, then I won’t have to pay child support.” And the children then have no mother.
Men, it is not about YOU. It is about your children.
I have a number of friends that are divorced.
In every instance *not* involving children, all of them received the same advice from their (different) attorneys: "Just give her what she asks for. She'll wind up getting it anyway, and all you'll do is run up my legal fees."
Now when kids were involved, it was a little different. But, I thought it interesting that a half-dozen or so lawyers all provided the same advice to my friends. Truly, the deck is stacked against men.