We badly need divorce reform in this country, no doubt. Divorce without cause is WRONG. Divorce is wrong. And kids do the majority of suffering.
That being said, mid life crisis causes males to act like idiots. The statistics about women wanting most of the divorces don’t reflect how many marriages are destroyed because of rutting by aging males. The males may not file for the divorce because they want their cake and eat it too, bu the women want the pain to end. Still, divorce is NEVER the answer and divorce lawyers are akin to abortionists.
“We badly need divorce reform in this country, no doubt. Divorce without cause is WRONG. Divorce is wrong. And kids do the majority of suffering.”
I agree, AMEN.
However,
“That being said, mid life crisis causes males to act like idiots. The statistics about women wanting most of the divorces don’t reflect how many marriages are destroyed because of rutting by aging males. The males may not file for the divorce because they want their cake and eat it too, bu the women want the pain to end. Still, divorce is NEVER the answer and divorce lawyers are akin to abortionists.”
STEREOTYPICAL... Leave gender out of it cuz it goes both ways more often than statistics lead you to believe.
—That being said, mid life crisis causes males to act like idiots.—
It can, but it didn’t with me. It did cause my ex to act like an idiot though. She decided she would like to try things out without me and ended a marriage over it. With several teen and pre-teen kids.
The rutting is the lesser of the evils.