“Sometimes you can afford a child and then life happens and then you can’t afford them”
With a little maturity, this is avoidable. Young people do NOT use their head and will wait and save for NOTHING.
I could afford (according to the bank) a MUCH better home than the one I bought. I would be homeless right now if I was an immature and selfish fool who wanted more than I could afford.
So you think nothing extra-ordinary happens?
I hope you never get caught up in the divorce “machine” of the Western world, particularly if you are a white male.
It’s open season on white males in particular. States get federal dollar “kick backs” for every dollar of matriarchy, errr I mean “child” support they collect. There is NO incentive to grant downward modifications when the (usually) non custodial father loses his job through no fault of his own. Instead his income is “imputed” which means CS is based on what he COULD be earning.
My husband’s ex wife is re-married to a well-heeled man and earns more than my husband does yet she takes half my husband’s income in NON-arrears CS. He is left with $200 a week take home pay. And he PAYS taxes on April 15th on top of withholding.
She also works, ironically, as a child protective worker, yet she’s alienated all three of his children against him as well as file false abuse claims, stolen their college funds that my husband set aside for them, failed to claim the raiding of said funds on the tax return and tried to stick HIM for the interest and penalities. All three children continue to fail school semester after semester yet their is no accounting for her so-called “parenting.”
My husband is soft hearted so during the divorce, he let her take EVERYTHING including the entire proceeds of the sale of the marital home. In exchange for his kindness, she went out and got a cut throat attorney, kept all his family souvenirs, saddled him with “marital” debt that she ran up while separated. Left him literally with nothing but the shirt on his back. Since then she’s been less than honest with the CSEU and has pocketed and been grossly overpaid in CS above and beyond the 29% gross base by keeping quiet years after daycare expenses and orthodonture expenses have ceased. Just TRY to get a downward mod in NYS. You have a better chance of hitting the lottery three times in a row.
The system is totally anti-father. However if you happen to be a non custodial bioMOM then the courts look the other way if you decide to truly walk away from your children (as opposed to giving up in hopelessness after mom has permanently brainwashed the children against you) and “find yourself.” The judges will literally trip over themselves with calculators trying to find a way for non custodial bioMOM to NOT pay child support to custodial dad.
Equal rights, yeah right.
I hope you never get caught up in the divorce “machine” of the Western world, particularly if you are a white male.
It’s open season on white males in particular. States get federal dollar “kick backs” for every dollar of matriarchy, errr I mean “child” support they collect. There is NO incentive to grant downward modifications when the (usually) non custodial father loses his job through no fault of his own. Instead his income is “imputed” which means CS is based on what he COULD be earning.
My husband’s ex wife is re-married to a well-heeled man and earns more than my husband does yet she takes half my husband’s income in NON-arrears CS. He is left with $200 a week take home pay. And he PAYS taxes on April 15th on top of withholding.
She also works, ironically, as a child protective worker, yet she’s alienated all three of his children against him as well as file false abuse claims, stolen their college funds that my husband set aside for them, failed to claim the raiding of said funds on the tax return and tried to stick HIM for the interest and penalities. All three children continue to fail school semester after semester yet their is no accounting for her so-called “parenting.”
My husband is soft hearted so during the divorce, he let her take EVERYTHING including the entire proceeds of the sale of the marital home. In exchange for his kindness, she went out and got a cut throat attorney, kept all his family souvenirs, saddled him with “marital” debt that she ran up while separated. Left him literally with nothing but the shirt on his back. Since then she’s been less than honest with the CSEU and has pocketed and been grossly overpaid in CS above and beyond the 29% gross base by keeping quiet years after daycare expenses and orthodonture expenses have ceased. Just TRY to get a downward mod in NYS. You have a better chance of hitting the lottery three times in a row.
The system is totally anti-father. However if you happen to be a non custodial bioMOM then the courts look the other way if you decide to truly walk away from your children (as opposed to giving up in hopelessness after mom has permanently brainwashed the children against you) and “find yourself.” The judges will literally trip over themselves with calculators trying to find a way for non custodial bioMOM to NOT pay child support to custodial dad.
Equal rights, yeah right.