“Secretly record all conversations.”
No, don’t! In many states that is now a felony, and they would lose the kids for good.
http://www.aapsonline.org/judicial/telephone.htm
It should always be legal to audio or video record public officials in the performance of their public duties, In most states it is. This needs to be codified as a Constitutional right, and with the First Circuit decision, we are on our way there.
It is legal to record public officials in the state of Washington with or without their knowledge.
That’s why I said secretly.