My sympathies to you, and I hope you have managed to put her back together.
Bless you.
It was my first wife and no, unfortunately she was never the same after that. At the time of her attack, she and I were just friends, the marriage came later. I had thought that she was ok. It took her a couple of decades and one ruined marriage before she finally seems to have some sense of normalcy in her life.
Rape should be a capital offense.