It’s okay, EE. By the look of your homepage, you’re obviously compensating for some flaccid shortcomings. (Dude, they have people you can talk to about that. Really. It’s okay.)
LOL..typical projection of your problems on to others when you know you can’t possibly measure up to them!
Or were you offering to counsel me? I appreciate the offer, but I’m hetero. Sorry to break your heart.