A major problem with Islam is that its adherents refuse to believe that people are intrinsically capable of choosing to sin.
If someone sins, it is because Person X caused that person to fall into sin.
Thus, if the father has hatred in his heart towards his daughters, it is not the father’s fault for harboring and acting on that hatred, but the daughters for “provoking” it.
Some here might appreciate this comparison:
http://carm.org/religious-movements/islam/comparison-between-jesus-and-muhammad
Sounds like a liberal motto. It ain’t any of their fault for anything.