“unbaby” is not appropriate. It was a baby and it has a soul which is with the Lord. Its birthday was day he/she was violently murdered.
You are absolutely right, cowgirl. Now that this woman has left the dark side, let's pray she is guided to Rachel's Vineyard, a ministry for women who have aborted their babies. The first step in the healing process, is to recognize the child by giving it a name and a date on which it would have been born. FWIU, that step begins the healing.