This is a false dichotomy (or whatever the word is for erroneously limiting options to three, instead of two). It is not either/or (as I'm sure you know, since you wouldn't be a FReeper if you were a dimwit). The general public need not pay for contraceptives, abortions, OR the rearing of children, unless they allow their elected representatives to force them to do so.
Here's my plan: private pay or private charity for everything to do with people's personal lives: housing, medical care, education, food, clothing, utilities, gas, blah blah blah.
ABSOLUTELY!!! It's the only sane, rational and honorable way. And with the hugely reduced taxes, people could afford to give more to charities of their choice.