Outrage over hypocrisy is a juvenile emotion.
It supposes that no ideal should be sought unless it has already been attained.
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Your comparison is deceitful.
If it was a case of not measuring up to one’s own aspirations you would have a point. The hypocrisy here is that she dictates to others while utterly disregarding those decrees herself. Disgust and contempt for her hypocrisy is completely justified, just as they are for your sophistry.
You seem a pleasant sort.