I want to welcome you, oneamericanvoice, in joining our discussion.
Through the years you've done yeoman's work on FR & @ rallies, etc. on behalf of our troops. I appreciate that. (And despite the uptick in honoring them the past decade, we can never seemingly do enough on their behalf!)
Anyway, I know you are sensitive to the anti-war arguments; and think you see a parallel there.
The way, though, that I might suggest you look @ svcw's comments would be a parallel one to homosexuality.
Some of us who have friends who are homosexual and former homosexuals. I am up front in my strong opposition to homosexuality; but that doesn't mean we don't love the homosexual as a person. (We do) IOW, one doesn't follow.
Pro-lifers can pray for those in the abortion industry; but be repulsed by the results of abortion.
I have relatives who are Lds; I myself am a descendent of Mormons. What I suggest that you consider is that one way we can love people is to not withhold the truth from them.
Thanks again, for adding your voice to this discussion. I appreciate you!