It is good (for your sake) that you don’t live close to me. I have some great friends and we would sit you down and analyze you! LOL! Why were you mislead? Why did you think this was the perfect girl? Then, we would help you set out and find “the girl” with more advice then you would ever want! (all done with good intentions, of course). I guess I am a romantic but I still believe the right girl is out there for you. (one is out there for Laz, too. Don’t tell him that because he gets annoyed at me!!)